Shy Blush: Massage
Though it may be hard for some to understand, massage is stressful. For those of us who are reluctant to lay semi-nude on a table and be grabbed by total strangers, massage is a far from a pleasant, relaxing prospect. On the contrary, it can be a very stressful one, bordering on panic inducing. I suppose it has everything to do with body image and what not, but the thought of a strangers oily hands on my back is not one I readily relish.
As a viable therapy, massage enjoys the distinction of being a time-honored one. We can see the depiction of massage in a number of Roman, Greek, India, Chinese, and even Thai murals and texts. It was, and still is, seen as a viable means of therapy. Indeed, even modern Western medicine can cite the effectiveness of massage, though most literature on the matter claims it is a perceived benefit, not necessarily an actual one. We perceive, therefore we are.
Massage, by definition, is the rubbing of the soft tissue of the body, which includes the muscles, skin, joints, ligaments, and even the internal organs. This “rubbing” can be done with a mechanical gadget or a part of the body, such as the forearm or thumbs or even the feet. Applying pressure to the soft tissue can release tension, reduce stress and therefore lower blood pressure. It can also facilitate the flow of lactic acid, reducing recovery times from strenuous activity. There is a reason athletes all get massages after each game or event.
The sheer number of types of massage is enough to make a shy man (or woman) blush. How is a person to choose between Breema, visceral manipulation, Shiatsu, Rolfing, and so on? Well, lets starts with certifications. Presently, only Shiatsu enjoys the distinction of being a licensed medical practice…in Japan. Still, the Japanese must onto something. Of course, a massage therapist must be licensed through a state agency, so whatever they happen to specialize in should be safe enough.
If all this talk of soft tissues and oils and semi-nudity is too much for you, you can simply invest in any number of high-powered personal massagers and call it a night. There are a variety of devices that can vibrate your stress away. Granted there is something unmistakable and even, perhaps, magical about the touch of another human, but for those of us who are the shy types, it’s just the ticket to peace of mind.
